I'LL NEVER FORGIVE YOU

And pastor asked,” what offence do you think your partner can do which you can’t forgive and what can make the love you have for your partner grow sour?”. This month is our family month in The Wisdomgate Church, today was the second Sunday. Well… He threw the question to the congregation as different people gave different perspective, some which got me thinking and some which made me laugh. Someone even said love doesn’t exist and if it does it is just mere words, slangs. More married people said ‘cheating’ and ‘lies’. Then a woman stood and said “nothing”, this really made me smile. As I raise my hand to talk, everyone looked at me as a small child, some even laughed.

 Hehehehe… I had to clear the air as I was given the chance to say my view.

“no one is too small or young to know what love means or at least little of what it entails. Yes... young people know exactly what it means and not all may practice it in the right way. For those who don’t believe in the existence of love, it’s not that love doesn’t exist but that you waste time loving the wrong person, you waste time loving who doesn’t know how to love and you ain’t ready also to teach and be patient with such person. There is meant to be nothing that you won’t be able to forgive. yes, it is hard, it is indeed but there should be nothing you shouldn’t be able to forgive including cheating, lies, no matter the sin against you. Even the Bible says,” love covereth multitudes of sin”, “forgive your neighbor” how many times? I have come to believe, if you love someone truly, you won’t be able to stay too far away from the person. Teenagers would agree with me when I say, if you see your first love, girlfriend, you would still have this feeling like you still care about her even if she did you really bad in the past. But for the fact that you have forgiven and forgotten, love is still there. Love is beautiful when after all the fight, quarrel, squabble; love still remains”

Remember, do what you want people to do unto you.

“this question was similar to that which the Pharisees asked Jesus in Matthew 19:3.

‘Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for any reason?’

In other words, what do you think your wife can do that you can’t forgive but have to send her packing?

Jesus said to them that The One (GOD) who made them, made them male and female from the beginning.

They said to Jesus,’ why did Moses ask them to write a bill of divorce for her and send her away?’

He said to them,’ it is because of the hardness of the heart of man, but from the beginning it was not so

… he said the only reason for you to put away his wife so adultery and if you put her away, you cannot marry another otherwise you would be committing the same sin, adultery’

According to Jesus, the only reason you can be separated from your spouse is adultery and if you do that, you can’t remarry. Don’t forget an adulterer or adulteress cannot inherit the kingdom of God. So, if you don’t want to go to heaven, you can go ahead and get separated from your partner.

The only option left for you is to forgive again and again. The Bible also made mention of this: if you don’t forgive neither will your father in heaven forgive you”

Our Pastor concluded.

Love can never grow sour. Your love for someone can never cease, what happens is the feeling of love becomes dented but if you open your heart to forgive, the dent will pop out, the love will return.

I wrote,” the happiest feelings in life; love given, love felt and love returned”. And a great man said,” I destroy my enemies by making them my friends”

I love you all…… remain loved.

Have a very blissful day. with much love.