IS LOVE ENOUGH???

The truth is everyone wants the best in their relationship. Everyone knows what not to do in relationships and outside. People say love isn’t enough to keep a relationship. Actually, love is. Just if you have the full understanding of what love entails.

A friend wrote,” relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart, it works because of our empathetic intelligence, emotional maturity, self-discipline and commitment”.

Well… it’s a nice view but I’ll say that every other determinants or qualities needed by a partner in keeping a forever relationship are urged by the love felt for the other. I always say,” there’s difference in ‘I love you’,’ I really like you’ and ‘I’m fond of you’. Loving someone with your head is like politely deceiving yourself that you love the person, but loving someone whole heartedly and using your head in the relationship is actually the best way to go about this.

“your mind can never carry the burdens your heart bears”

Okay! I asked myself this question some time ago; I ask you out… you accept… what’s next? I sat thinking... what’s next after she accepts? Many people go into a relationship with no plans of hope for the future to come. This is actually a major factor of break ups in relationships. When both parties don’t know what they want in a tender relationship. For an average teen, partying, showing off of the partner, hanging out, having sex and many others are the activities done in a romantic relationship. True! Sure! There should be fun.

Everyone knows the basic things to be done in a relationship. But these would also take us to advantageous characteristics of teenage relationships. You should have a partner who plans and builds his/her future with you. One who encourages your steps. One who adds value to your life so as you do to him/her.

It is actually easy talking about these things. It has been observed that before entering a relationship, communication is always at its peak. There’s always something to talk about but while in the relationship the chats reduce. Actually, some partners feel bad about this. You should take note of this; before the relationship, partners talk about themselves, families, likes, dislikes, favorites and things that should be known by the time the relationship finally launches there would be the urge to meeting each other, hanging outs, and other fun activities. No one likes a boring relationship.

Yes! Lest I forget, people make mistakes of talking about breaking up even on a casual note, it’s actually a bad sign in relationships.

Well…. let love rule, it can make you look stupid at times but let it rule!



Have a very blissful day. with much love.