WHY CAN'T SHE ASK ME OUT INSTEAD?

A girlfriend said, ‘When you love a guy never show it too much because he is going to take you for granted someday’. I just smiled and that smile turned into burning anger, I don’t know why though I burnt it off after pouring my mind out. Recently, I created a sentence that could fit perfectly as a counter response to her observation “I kept hanging on until I could feel the pain in my shoulders and you stood there in folded arms watching me. I had to let go”. I actually did pour my mind out this way: When you don't show... You give him the idea you don't share the same feelings, so... He decides to dig somewhere else… Then you say... .... 'We've not even started dating, you already cheating'... You don't know the importance of something till you lose it. Not every guy can go through the same troubles he went through in earlier relationships.... … In each, he learns a new lesson, new skill, new tactic, new strategy... Unless he was a fool throughout his life. He knows the pain he went through… Once he notices the same link of pain, he would withdraw in bits. He either leaves, or grows sarcastic about it I say, good relationships bring happiness, bad ones bring experience and lessons Only if you make the exact mistake twice, then you become a fool. But life has brought so many mazes to prove you to still be a fool, landing in the same end every time Now you girls, after his long suffering you still decide to ditch him... … Or maybe you finally date him out of pity… … Or maybe you date him because you do care, then you think you find someone better and you decide to leave… … Or you date him because of the status...' In a relationship'… … Or you date him just to date him… And then leave with no reasons.... Reasons you don't even know yourself. Reasons you try to formulate, but they all come out stupid... Leaving him in the same end... Heartbroken The fact guys are said to be strong doesn't mean in their quiet time they don't mourn their loss... Even haven loved someone so much with all your plans, and heart... And she doesn't seem to plan the same future with you.... Not even a chance to prove things could last forever... The longest relationships are ones that they both keep it, fight for it and work on it. And that ended the topic…